@strike So sorry about your sister, I hope that all works out OK.
I agree totally with this post. I have a 63 year old friend who does not know what her husband has put in his will. I find that gobsmacking !
I’ve also seen women in court, still wearing a black eye, beg us to let the boyfriend who gave them it come home so they can do it again. Those women need help to build their self esteem. They are dependant in a very, very destructive way.